We all have our own way of doing this, ways in which we feel most comfortable. These are often the ways that can annoy our partner as well.
Maybe you are more reserved and do not speak your mind easily. Or perhaps you wear your heart on your sleeve, and there are no secrets as to how you feel about things.
I have an experiment for you: be different today, take on another role than the one you are used to. Heart on sleeve wearer: count to a 100 and say nothing. Reserved one: tell the other person loud and clear how you feel about something.
This way you break the pattern and create room for something different between you. Curious? Give it a try, see what happens . Will you let me know?
Maybe you are more reserved and do not speak your mind easily. Or perhaps you wear your heart on your sleeve, and there are no secrets as to how you feel about things.
I have an experiment for you: be different today, take on another role than the one you are used to. Heart on sleeve wearer: count to a 100 and say nothing. Reserved one: tell the other person loud and clear how you feel about something.
This way you break the pattern and create room for something different between you. Curious? Give it a try, see what happens . Will you let me know?
Jolanda
Relationship Counselling Zaandam
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